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I know from the get go that many people have their
philosophy on debt. This is simply mine.
For so long I have had only one thought about debt-“Debt is
bad”. All I knew was debt caused my family to go bankrupt. Then we had to move
from the only home I ever lived in and witness my family go through a lot of
stress. I didn’t like it nor did I want to be around it and I formed a really
negative perspective of debt. I mean, how could you blame me? The only thing I
could associate with debt was negative circumstances.
Following high school, I was convinced I had to buy into a dream college in order to get what I want. I didn’t really know what I was doing.
I just knew that in order to go there I needed more money than I had. As a
result, I took the money the state offered me. Money they want back with
interest.
I took the loan. $7,000 of debt. I used my credit card to
pay for books. $600 worth of debt. More debt. $7,600 worth of debt.
I kept thinking bad debt, bad debt.
Literally, it was one day towards the end of the second
semester of my first year when I felt the weight of those borrowed bricks fall
on me. I had to pay this money back!
What if my job doesn’t pay me enough? What if I become some slave
to the government since I’m only working to pay back what they gave me? Isn’t
this just a cycle of investing, working then working then working to pay it all
back? When does the reward come? And finally: When will I be free and not owe somebody
something so I can do what I really want?
I didn't have enough logical desire to continue.
I couldn’t come up with one good lie to pull out more money
I didn’t have only to invest it into something I didn’t even care enough about.
I knew there had to be another way; some other way to not be another employee
working forever to pay back borrowed money.
I know I might have lost some of you college go-ers right
there. So let me bring you back. You probably know exactly why you are in
college. You most likely have it all paid for or are okay with the amount you
owe because you are certain you will have the job you want that will pay for
it. You enjoy what you are learning and believe it will apply to what you
really want to do.
Or maybe that just made you uncomfortable..
Perfect. Now that we got you back I’ll actually start
sharing why this matters anyways. I promise there is a point to this.
After investing into my financial education, I started
learning more about good debt and bad debt. I thought “Good debt? How could
there be such a thing?” Maybe you are thinking the same thing right now.
The purpose of my story is to illustrate where I have come
from so I can share some important lessons I have learned.
1. Not all debt is bad.
The difference between good debt and
bad debt falls heavily upon assets and liabilities. Assets-pay you, while
liabilities-you pay. Let’s practice on some examples.
Education? Good debt.
Obviously, if you learn to catch fish you can have enough to feed
yourself and sell some to make some money. Which is the ultimate purpose of
schooling, right? You invest into an expertise that is expected to get you to
your desired outcome-something that pays you back.
For me, this meant changing the education I was investing in
since I want to be a financial genius and start my own business.
Credit cards? Good and bad debt. Gotcha there. If what you
purchase on a credit card is an investment that is going to pay you back (ie: Education, stocks, etc.) then it is good debt. If, on the other hand, your
purchase is a couple new outfits, a new phone or a meal with your friends you
are buying into bad debt. That outfit or phone is probably not going to be
paying you back much.
In my case, I stopped putting random purchases on my credit
card. If I couldn’t afford a new phone, I couldn’t afford a new phone. No ifs
ands or buts about it. It is a liability. On the other hand, when I want to
invest into an education or product that will pay me back, asset, I have no
problem charging it. For example, yesterday I spent $188 on a website for my business. Why
isn’t it a liability? Because that site will bring me more business and
therefore more money. It will pay me back. Good debt.
Okay, now here is where I have to warn some of you to not be
ridiculous and invest into a bunch of education and products that you don’t
apply because those can and will become liabilities. A smart investor looks
into a matter.
Car payments, shopping sprees, subscription services, food,
and entertainment? You can answer these for yourself, but let’s say it like it
is: liabilities. Boo liabilities. Bad debt. Don’t worry I’ve done it, too. I’m
not going to slap your hand.
Education, business ventures, stocks, and real estate? Risks.
But these risks are assets worth investing in because with the right knowledge
you will be paid back. Good debt. Go assets.
Which brings me to the next lesson I learned.
2. The right education, if applied, is worth the debt.
I don’t feel the need to explain this one.
3. What you invest in is entirely up to you. Not anyone
else. Only you.
Invest in the education you want to benefit from. Not the education
you are most supported or encouraged to invest in. You pay the bills at the end
of the day so let’s make them worth paying.
I had to make a tough choice this year. I had two options:
Option #1 Have the support and understanding of my parents and a majority of
those around me. Option#2 Have lots risk and many more responsibilities. As grateful
as I am to have had the opportunity to attend community college at my parent’s
expense, Option #1, I had to respectfully decline. In doing that, I also
accepted that I am going to have to start paying for my own living expenses
soon, Option #2.
The bottom line is this: College education is not what I want. It’s what others want for me. The things is, I want to look back at my life 15 years from now and have a story worth
telling. Not one of secret regrets because I invested in what others hoped for
me. So in summary, invest in what brings value to you because it is your
life-not anyone else’s. No one else needs to understand or support you. Some
will, some won’t. That’s life. Support and understand yourself and let that
direct you.
The purpose of this article is not to condemn you by any
means. It is to bring you to a place of recognition with me. Let's be honest.
Often, I wonder why I see nice cars parked outside not-as-nice houses. It
wasn’t until I realized it is so easy to be consumed, in this culture, with living
outside of our means (storing up loads of liabilities). We are sold on the
radio, TV and by our own comparison of others, that we can and should have that
which we cannot afford- to which I say bogus.
We are going to live with what we
have, albeit not up-to-date. We can and will live if we don’t buy a newer car
or the latest fashion trend. We will say no to the bad debt and liabilities we
are constantly sold. We can and will be smarter than average consumers by reducing
our liabilities and gaining assets.
We will make every investment worth it.
Wrote the bestselling book, Make Every Man Want You: How To Be So Irresistible You’ll Barely Keep from Dating Yourself published in 13 languages. Marie has been interviewed by Tony Robbins as one of the world’s leading lifestyle and online marketing experts and mentored young business owners at Richard Branson’s Centre of Entrepreneurship in South Africa. 
Creator of the Desire Map: A guide to Creating Goals With Soul. She is passionate about creating a life that we love living. she skipped out on college to learn what she was really interested in and it brought her to the place she is now-inspiring, encouraging and motivating other ladies.
